Many older people will have kept their gender and sexual identities hidden and performed in traditional roles as heterosexual partners and parents to avoid rejection and difficult relationships with their families and networks. Some may have lived with great loss, pain and misunderstanding from their family networks as a result of coming out whereas others may wish to be more open having 'come out' and fought for their rights already.
Being open to these possibilities as a care professional is essential and being able to create an atmosphere of trust in which a person can be open if they want to be, without creating pressure for someone to 'come out' This is a skilled balancing exercise and one that many care professionals struggle with. For example, when older people come into contact with care services, they are not immediately recognisable as someone who identifies as LGBT+ and there may not be opportunities to talk about their lifestyles or experiences From the professional's perspective, this can result in their life stories, and in particular their love stories, not being known, understood or acknowledged in the way they should be.
Person centred care and providing quality support to older lgbt people and their social environment
Teachers and trainers in vocational education and their students
Level 2-3-4 in vocational education
Extra support from the teacher might be necessary depending on the ability of the students to work independently
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